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Tuesday, January 26, 2010

It's gone

Well, today was the day we've been dreading a little and were starting to think it might be avoidable at this point in time. We were told that hair falls out from chemo at the 2 to 3 week point - but sometimes it doesn't at all. Well, today was Day 21, and Dave noticed some hair he left behind on the phone late in the morning. It was a little upsetting for Dave at first, but he seems to have come to terms with it quickly.

It was kind of funny timing as Dave was planning on heading into school this afternoon for team pictures. He washed his hair, leaving a bit more behind unfortunately, and headed in to have his picture taken with the hockey team. Then he immediately went out to a barber shop and had them shaved it all off. It's hair, and it'll grow back. We're curious to see how it grows back. I mentioned this in an earlier post that apparently it often grows back curly and a different colour after chemo. Stay tuned! Anyway we've determined that he has a decent noggin and there's no odd bumps or divets on it! Hahaha! It's beginning to grow on me. Our son Cale offered to shave his head in support but Dave said he didn't need to do that. (That's nice though.)

Dave has already noticed that he has to wear a toque or he's feels very cold. He's currently wearing one that a few of his students gave him. It says 'chemo sucks' on it!
and it does.

Despite losing his hair today, it's actually been a pretty good day for Dave. I can tell he's feeling much better today. He's still fighting this cold and yesterday was a bad day as he really wasn't feeling well at all. We kept taking his temperature and it seemed to keep climbing all evening. (When it hits 38°C [100.4°F] we're supposed to call the hospital.) His temperature has normally been around 36° and it was 37.4° when he went to bed last night. But this morning it was dropping again at 37° and is now 35.8°. He said he got a good nights rest last night and felt great when he woke up this morning. Yeah!

Well, today is the end of chemotherapy 'cycle 1'. One down!
Thanks everybody for helping us get through to this point! It's so nice that people just call to check in and say hi, or post a short note. It's really encouraging and I don't know how we'd do it without you!

Tomorrow is the start of 'cycle 2', which means we'll be at LRCP for the better part of the day for blood tests, an oncologist appointment, receive cisplatin and epirubicin intravenously, and then change the bottle on the 5-FU med he does at home. He tells me he'll be wearing his new toque!

Thanks for keeping us in your prayers. Today is another good day!

Val

12 comments:

T. Mark Walker said...

I thought about shaving mine in support as well, but I was afraid no one would notice!!!

Jessie Zellas said...

Glad Mr.Richards finally got one good nights sleep - hopefully this will continue. Think of you daily and you are in our prayers every day as well. Stay strong and keep smiling.

jan said...

Hi Dave,
Thinking and praying for you today. Good Luck today with all the appt., treatments. I had just thought to myself when I saw you on MOnday - WOW,I cannot believe he has such a full head of hair. NOT!! I hope the g-tube is settling. Stay strong!! You and Val are the ultimate fighters. There are good things that come from a competative nature!!
God Bless
Jan

Anonymous said...

I'm praying for a "smooth sailing" day...good to read that you had a restful night, Dave...and, at the risk of repeating myself: you and your family are inspiring...thanks so much for sharing all that you do.

Phyllis C.

Judie Webb said...

One down ... and Dave seems to be having more good days then bad, so keep up the positive thinking.

Thanks for keeping everyone that cares so much informed. I am with ya Val, it's only hair .. it's grow back.

The girls at volleyball were asking how you were doing, and send their wishes. You not missing any spectacular games .. although we did sweep all four games last night.

Take Care, I'll be thinking about you as you head into round 2!

Judie Webb

Anonymous said...

Hi Dave,

We've been thinking a lot about you and have been praying every day. We know how you feel about your hair ..but it will grow back! I shared your story with the girls at the office and we check the blog daily! Even though they don't know you they wish you and your family all the best. Stay strong my friend and we'll talk soon.

Maria (Vic's wife)

Anonymous said...

Hey, Dave - You didn't have any hair when you were born either! Hope it grows in quicker this time.

Mom

Anonymous said...

If you are looking for an afro wig Dave, give me a call. We got one that makes everyone look like Isaac from the "Love Boat". But seriously, i'm glad you got some resemblance of sleep last night. One day at a time my friend!!!You are still in our prayers

((BIG HUGS)) to the both you!!!

** The Youngs **

Anonymous said...

I would so love to see you in the afro wig Dave! Glad you have had a good couple of days!!!! Thinking of you and sending many prayers your way each day! You are a very strong and encouraging man! Thanks again for all the updates Val!

Alisha

Valerie said...

Today Dave wore his 'chemo sucks' toque to his chemo treatment and a few nurses thought it was great. He might get a few laughs if he shows up next week in a black afro!

Candy said...

If Dave gets the Afro wig I think it would also be necessary to wear the Giant oversize sunglasses to comnplete the ensemble!

Anonymous said...

I have an awesome dredlocks wig - might do the trick also and a hot pink fro. Dave should model a bunch and pick his favourite - then maybe you guys can post some pics.

Glad to hear it was a good day and we are all praying for plenty more good days and years.

Lisa P.